The Story
"This book reminds us that time's real value lies in the human moments we refuse to rush." - Daniel H. Pink, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Power of Regret and When
"Sometimes You Should Be Late shows why slowing down in the right contexts isn't an obstacle to progress, but a prerequisite for it." - Jamie Metzl, bestselling author of Superconvergence and The AI Ten Commandments
"This insightful meditation on time is ultimately a call to stay attuned to our values more than the clock." - Rhaina Cohen, Bestselling author of The Other Significant Others
"A must-read for anyone who wants to feel less rushed and more present." - Anne-Laure Le Cunff, neuroscientist and author of Tiny Experiments
What if the real measure of your life isn't how fast you run, how much you do, how 'on time' you are, but how well you pay attention to what actually matters?
Sometimes You Should Be Late is about the quiet courage to slow down when the world keeps shouting, hurry up. It's not really about clocks; it's about questioning the stories we've inherited about time and consciously, rebelliously, choosing our own path.
We live in a culture that worships urgency. Like horses with blinders, we're trained to look straight ahead--at deadlines, meetings, and to-do lists. This book invites us to lift those blinders and see what we're missing: the colleague who has a sad look in their eye, the simple joy of a walk, the gift of a slow morning with loved ones, the stranger who needs help. Because sometimes being late is how we arrive on time for what truly matters.
Drawing on stories from government, psychology, and everyday life, meditation teacher and writer Alex Snider offers a field guide for reclaiming your attention from urgency culture. This isn't about hacks or time-management tricks. It's about choosing presence over punctuality, kindness over checklists, and our humanity over the clock.
Author: Alex Snider
Publisher: Practical Inspiration Publishing
Published: 07/07/2026
Pages: 242
Binding Type: Paperback
Weight: 0.63lbs
Size: 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.55d
ISBN: 9781788609685
About the Author
Alex Snider is a writer, facilitator, and former government strategist who bridges the worlds of public service and mindfulness. He brings over 15 years of federal experience to his work, having shaped domestic policy through the President's Management Agenda, represented the United States as a diplomat at the Department of State, and served in roles at the World Bank, the U.S. Mission to the United Nations, and the U.S. Senate. He holds degrees from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and Georgetown University's School of Foreign Service.
Alex writes about mindfulness, urgency culture, and relationships for Psychology Today, his Substack Slow Mindfulness, and other publications. A certified meditation and authentic relating instructor, he has led hundreds of workshops in Washington, DC, and beyond. He also co-founded Mindful Fed, a cross-government mindfulness community that has grown to thousands of participants, helping public servants slow down and show up with presence.
Description
"This book reminds us that time's real value lies in the human moments we refuse to rush." - Daniel H. Pink, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Power of Regret and When
"Sometimes You Should Be Late shows why slowing down in the right contexts isn't an obstacle to progress, but a prerequisite for it." - Jamie Metzl, bestselling author of Superconvergence and The AI Ten Commandments
"This insightful meditation on time is ultimately a call to stay attuned to our values more than the clock." - Rhaina Cohen, Bestselling author of The Other Significant Others
"A must-read for anyone who wants to feel less rushed and more present." - Anne-Laure Le Cunff, neuroscientist and author of Tiny Experiments
What if the real measure of your life isn't how fast you run, how much you do, how 'on time' you are, but how well you pay attention to what actually matters?
Sometimes You Should Be Late is about the quiet courage to slow down when the world keeps shouting, hurry up. It's not really about clocks; it's about questioning the stories we've inherited about time and consciously, rebelliously, choosing our own path.
We live in a culture that worships urgency. Like horses with blinders, we're trained to look straight ahead--at deadlines, meetings, and to-do lists. This book invites us to lift those blinders and see what we're missing: the colleague who has a sad look in their eye, the simple joy of a walk, the gift of a slow morning with loved ones, the stranger who needs help. Because sometimes being late is how we arrive on time for what truly matters.
Drawing on stories from government, psychology, and everyday life, meditation teacher and writer Alex Snider offers a field guide for reclaiming your attention from urgency culture. This isn't about hacks or time-management tricks. It's about choosing presence over punctuality, kindness over checklists, and our humanity over the clock.
Author: Alex Snider
Publisher: Practical Inspiration Publishing
Published: 07/07/2026
Pages: 242
Binding Type: Paperback
Weight: 0.63lbs
Size: 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.55d
ISBN: 9781788609685
About the Author
Alex Snider is a writer, facilitator, and former government strategist who bridges the worlds of public service and mindfulness. He brings over 15 years of federal experience to his work, having shaped domestic policy through the President's Management Agenda, represented the United States as a diplomat at the Department of State, and served in roles at the World Bank, the U.S. Mission to the United Nations, and the U.S. Senate. He holds degrees from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and Georgetown University's School of Foreign Service.
Alex writes about mindfulness, urgency culture, and relationships for Psychology Today, his Substack Slow Mindfulness, and other publications. A certified meditation and authentic relating instructor, he has led hundreds of workshops in Washington, DC, and beyond. He also co-founded Mindful Fed, a cross-government mindfulness community that has grown to thousands of participants, helping public servants slow down and show up with presence.
